Is double dating Right? Can you date two women at the same time...that is the question...Is it right to date two women at the same time? That's the question I got this morning from a visitor. According to how the story goes, he pretty much suspect his girlfriend is seeing another guy and was wondering if it is cool to also see another girl...and I said maybe...you can...with reasons...If you know how to play the games.
Actually, I don't want to cross the thin line between morality and reality... I know this could stir up some dirt but wait till you see the last paragraph. Dating two women at the same time seems morally wrong, it could boil up lots of issues...cause quarrel (if you are caught) and even leave you with gross feeling of irresponsibility, so what am I saying? Quit trying to date two women? No! Are there advantages of double dating? what could be the worst case scenario if you are caught.
First...It is obvious that bad guys get more women than nice guys...I am very sure of that... I am a professional dating coach and I have seen lots of guys pouring out their grudges about how they are working so hard to get a pretty girl who is working so hard to please "some other guys they are very sure is a cheat," Girls are always working hard to get accepted by bad guys and all bad guys deals with more than one girl at a particular time.
Yes...they think it's nice playing girls, that is how they survive, that is how they successfully play on their emotions... you know girls don't come running to guys that are "standing," they prefer chasing the ones that are running. So if you need to get girls, you need to start running away from them. How Ironical that sounds but is one true-talk about dating women. for more on this subject click here
So what am I saying...? That there are good things about double dating and let's look at them and how you can also avoid falling into a ditch.
You are always left with an Option
Maybe I should draw the line here, I know many girls could get pissed at this - Why ask guys to cheat on us? Should we really call it cheating on them or having some other person to fall back to? OK What do you think a girl does when she sees you with another female? Let's say she caught you flirting with her, not kissing her or doing anything out of ordinary - Just flirting...laughing out loud and getting another women to crack up the way you do it to her Do you think she would back off? Or make inquires or buckle up? I mean when your girlfriend catches you flirting with another girl from my experience, she would buckle up. People and women feel free to mess up when there is no one else to replace them. Women generally feel they can do anything when you have no "alternative" as it appear a second option spurs up their jealousy thereby making them to work hard to keep you. And that brings us to the second advantage of hanging out with more than one girl at a particular point in time.
But remember to maintain your morality with the one whom you want to continue, there are many dating sites where you can get plenty of women to date with but dont use the option as granted make sure that you are maintaining your morality with a single women. As I said there is only a thin line between morality and to be immoral while you double dating.
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